As far as being the one to take it apart - I never wanted it to come to me being the one who made that move. I don't see that anything will ever change if I don't. Heck, W started texting me from her !@#$#ing GF's house just a few minutes ago. She still doesn't get it! It appears it will come down to me. My goal will be to give it one more month before I make any moves toward it or bring it up in discussion.
Just saying that at this point, she might be content to stay right where she is. She has paid little of a price for it. And I don't want to be the one to push things along, but I won't stay in limbo.
