I really think this is progress for Kev's wife. She hasn't filed for D, and they'll be together at Christmas. Do all the things you're planning Kev, she WILL notice, and even if she doesn't stay with you, they'll help with another woman down the line. That, to me, is the essence of DBing.
Thanks Jon,
In a lot of ways it is progress compared to where we have been the past 15 months. In some ways, ya, she is still moving forward, but the tones of things are changing to an extent. It is a long slow process. Patience and faith are the biggest factors.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...