Originally Posted By: Tridoc
I just spoke with my therapist. He said that I should wait on resuming the bedroom until after Christmas.
How many marriages has he saved?

Quote:
It would be a power move and that it would cause too much drama and anger
If you W wants drama and reacts with anger that is her choice. Your choice is to stand up for what you believe is the right thing to do.

Quote:
which would ruin it for the kids.
I don't believe it...Kids would be happy daddy is back in master bedroom on Xmas. Kids want their parents together. If W leaves, that is HER CHOICE.

Quote:
it would be selfish
I disagree. It is self respect. "IF IT FEELS UNCOMFORTABLE, IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO"

Quote:
I will cease with the sarcastic remarks, validate her, work on me, I bought some of the books recommended and I am reading those.
Great!

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712