No contact with the OM. Period. Full stop. Never again.
While there may be nothing going on just now, what if they migrate back to each other again? Withdrawing from the OM is just that, a withdrawal. Similar to an addiction withdrawal. She will keep wanting to go back there. Just because she's just browsing at the window just now, doesn't mean she's not going to go into the shop.
If she is working on the marriage then either IT'S more important than OM or HER is more important than the marriage.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
