Good morning All - Morning coffee is great today - WOW - mind is still reeling about the weekend - So many positives I really can not post them all - however in talking with her over weekend she did say that maybe she did move too quick on the divorce and maybe we should have just seperated. I told her that what was done is done and she did what she thought was best at the time and we do not have to worry about that now - just work on us for now forward.
She did say that she really did not think I would ever do what I did. Get books and read about R and how do improve a M, go to Dr and find out about my low Testosterone, get Counselling (Telephone DBing coach) and then actually putting that into practice. She said I really got her confused about our possible future R and her past view of our future R.
Well I believe the Brick wall is mostly down but I have alot of work ahead of me to clean away the pile of bricks that are left and to make sure she does not use them to build the wall again.
Wooohooo! Things are really sounding good! You are working hard and getting good results because of all your hard work! Lights, camera...action....there's a new db star being born....applause for Bob!
Quote: however in talking with her over weekend she did say that maybe she did move too quick on the divorce and maybe we should have just seperated.
And there you go! Glad I put a halt to getting my D, now we are just separated. Sometimes we all move too fast. Maybe there should be a waiting period? I know some states make you wait. I got sick, had to do a lot of thinking, wasn't much else I could do!
But as long as you 2 are starting over that is the good thing! Deb is dancing the jig for Odga! WOOHOO!
Morning to all a little late - overslept and did not get a chance to get online and post positives.
Alaska - Tal - Deb - thanks for dropping by - your encouragement is always apprecaited - Alaska, I know you are looking forward to H comming home tonight - have a great evening. Tal, I really liked your before and after list on your thread, I am starting one of my own. It can be very enlightening. Deb - I like what I am reading on your thread too - the great feeling on your Reconnecting deserves a Jig too.
My positives for today - Well other than some nice IMs not much contact yesterday but I think after last weekend she has a lot of soul searching and thinking about her wants so I did not call her last night so she could have some space to just think.
1. Had several good IMs and finalized plans for another Dinner at my place this Thursday night, and she did say she was looking forward to it.
2. She started the afternoon IM's with "I was just thinking about you".
Thoughts on my Dinner - Last year I had fixed some Baked fish and she indicated she wanted it again - so any ideas on what goes with baked fish? After a small salad I was thinking of Julian strips of Zucchini, Squash and onions coated with onion soup mix and baked in a tin foal pouch, but maybe another vegatable??? Since we are both trying to loose weight (I have already lost 20 lbs - yea, yea) no desserts. will do another Cosmospolitian for after dinner though. Already bought a candle center piece for the table. Candlelight does wonders.
Well - I am at work now and need to actually do something that can make me some money. Catch yal later.
Quote: Since we are both trying to loose weight (I have already lost 20 lbs - yea, yea) no desserts. will do another Cosmospolitian for after dinner though.
If you're looking for low-cal, low-fat desserts.... fresh fruit and low-fat (no fat?) Cool-Whip in a tall glass. Quick, easy, tasty!
wow - another positive IM - before last weekend, I had previously planned to go to a Bed and Breakfast this weekend by myself if she did not want to go however, I did let her know I did want her to go. Since she had previouly made arrangements to go away this weekend with a few GFs she indicated that she would not be able to go with me.
Well, out of the blue she sent an IM that said ---"what if I came up this weekend for one night"?- WOW - I believe that every one on this board knows what my answer was. I did not answer on the IM - I just called and said I would love it. we will work out which day later but that was a nice PMA boost for today.
