She could probably be coming to terms with what she did and how it almost cost her marriage, hence the shaken up-thing.
Thanks sol. Good one! Think so? She is the type of person who carries a massive amount of guilt about everything she ever did in her life. There are times I think, 'God, I feel so bad for her'. Other times, weaker moments, I think, 'Why doen't she feel worse.' I have decided my mantra now is to "give to what is good" In other words, I am going to feed only the positive, self building and relationsip building thoughts, and starve the negative, resentment building thoughts. Hence, "give to what is good" What do you think I should do next?