They never do. They don't want to admit to it cuz everyone will look at them negatively. Duh! Maybe you shouldn't be doing stuff you have to be ashamed of! *rolls eyes*
XH is still pissed off at me for telling people about the As when asked what happened. I suppose if I wanted to R it would matter.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
They never do. They don't want to admit to it cuz everyone will look at them negatively. Duh! Maybe you shouldn't be doing stuff you have to be ashamed of! *rolls eyes*
XH is still pissed off at me for telling people about the As when asked what happened. I suppose if I wanted to R it would matter.
Exactly! My WAW had a fit because I would not go along with her story of "we just aren't right for each other" when telling family or friends. Mind you, I didn't jump right in and tell people that she had been unfaithful, but I didn't lie when they inevitably asked if "there was someone else involved".
Yeah, if people ask then I say about ow, I'm not going to lie. I have no idea what h has told people, I think I'd rather not know! I should imagine it is along the lines of what S4H's wife said.
I am posting my Christmas cards tomorrow. In fact the one I was sort of dreading was my Uncle and Aunt but in fact they sent me a christmas card in my maiden name and to my new address so my mum must have been on the case - this time I am actually grateful for the family grapevine.
My niece has given me a cold - she was too cute and I couldn't resist cuddling her at the weekend.
It is snowing outside, for someone who is abstaining from Christmas it has been the most Christmas-like Christmas time since h left. Does that make any sense whatsoever This time next week I'll be on the plane - scary!
Well I am getting cards in just my maiden name, I didn't change it. I still use both. I am not quite sure why that bothers me but it does. It was from my supposed best friend who could have just asked!!
I am so excited for you making this trip. It is what you need and what you want. Please make the most of it and take plenty of pics to post on the alt.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Pretty ugly, but so is reality!