This is not meant to be a highly thought about post or something deep and meaningful. What I actually want to say is
<expletive removed> me ...
Our three sitches are so similar. Cutter, our W's are almost identical in needs. The sitch of the A is slightly different but the person is the same. Only difference is my W is insecure too, I believe because of her past (mother and father rejecting her). She is also highly sexual and, again I believe, confuses love and sex (they are not the same thing).
Because of these traits, I believe that the A will last - because she will cling onto him for dear life because she is so afraid of being alone and also the OM will cling to her as, he is 45, has a 34 year old girlfriend and has sex on tap ... how many OM's would turn that down?
Sorry for the hijack, I just really was taken aback. A more thought about reply will come soon. Day is slightly better than it was but head is still 'mince' (Scottish term :))
Last edited by P17; 12/21/0907:06 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
