Yes, I have asked her and checked her phone and email. I am not going to ask everyday though and I obviously cannot be with her every minute.
Her down moods are probably her mourning the OM, hate to say that but it's there. There is a book called "After the Affair" that you should check out.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.