W called today. I did answer intentionally. Convo was much ado bout nothing.
I did ask her if she was serious about IC with pro MC after the holidays. She said yes. No other R talk beyound that.
W, I am sure, is still seeing OM. She has made no mention of OM, and I did not ask.
Only other thing W said really was when she asked about son's X-mas list. Son never ent her a copy via email as she requested. Told her not to worry, it was already taken care of. W asked what was on the list so I told her. One of the items was a new TV. W replied, well, don't let him get rid of the one downstairs. I asked why not, she said cuz it is better than the one in our bedroom. I calmly replied, would you like me to swap them out for you... she replied "I guess"
Do know how to recieve that.
I get the feeling she wants to talk more but not about R. I also get the feeling that she wants to come home, but she says she doesn't know. Mixed messages.
W likes a no pressure atmosphere.... I am constantly wanting to fix R, constantly wanted to talk about us. I find it hard to not let something slip out. Any tips...
Otherwise, I be chillin the rest of the day. Got a good book to finish, have not made plans for dinner yet and there is a good college b-ball game on later.
That will be my day with a small smile if I can muster one up.
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
