What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Friends,

I just spoke with my therapist. He said that I should wait on resuming the bedroom until after Christmas. It would be a power move and that it would cause too much drama and anger which would ruin it for the kids....He is right. I don't need that, it would be selfish. Instead, I will cease with the sarcastic remarks, validate her, work on me, I bought some of the books recommended and I am reading those.

Thanks to all of you for your help. I'm so glad that I posted here. It helps me so much. Going it alone is a hard thing. There is an old saying with Christians " Loners never make it" Here.....I am not alone. I think I have a chance.