Coach, there is such a fine line between unconditional love and cake eating. How do you figure out the difference?
People let their spouse "cake-eat" becuase they are afraid - might push them away if I set a boundary, don't want to rock the boat, look controlling, what if they choose the OP?
Love means telling someone you are out of line (discipline with your kids) or a 2x4 here. You also have to love yourself enougth to not be walked on. Love is based on doing what is right no matter the circumstance.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.