What to do when H doesn't contact?

[K4D]

Where do I go from here? Do I go dark or do I text or call him here and there to see how he is doing?

I'd go dark and enjoy your Christmas with your family that does want to be there. You made every effort. The ball is in his court.

If it makes you feel any better, I did not invite my W to Christmas Eve dinner with me and my girls. Not because I didn't want to, but because I don't think she would accept. And the rejection would probably hurt. So why put myself further in that? Make sense? You have done your part. Let it fall where it may now and focus on you and the kids and your family that you do have that wants to be with you.

Kevin