Hi Jon, I agree with DDay, I believe it in some type of internal war within your W. I'm so happy that she called an apologized for being cold the night before and also happy that she accepted the flowers and thanked you. I believe you are moving along great. If I sent my H flowers he probably would get mad. I know how you feel as far as FIL. My IL's have been in the middle of our separation and still are causing problems. I believe they are telling my H what to do and he is afraid to stand up to them. Plus all of his lies that he has told (God only knows), he doesn't know how to get out of them or I really believe we would have reconciled.