Kevin, I hoping for the best for you on Christmas. I think it is a big step to celebrate a holiday together. You are doing well, just keep on going. But as far as the texting goes, I do the same thing and I think we are doing the wrong thing. We really aren't detaching, I'm just as guilty as you are.
Oh I did my cliff notes if you want to hop over to my thread. You will see what I'm saying about the texting. I texted H last night just to say Hi and ask how he was doing and got no response. Another let down, but the day before he responded.
The text I sent was strictly an informative text and to see if we were both united on this. Nothing more. I will stop by and take a look at your cliff notes.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...