Appearances GIMA, appearances. Like you've said before, that is most important to her.
She very well may keep doing this for years so she doesn't look like the 'bad guy'.
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Newton's First Law of Motion: I. Every object in a state of uniform motion tends to remain in that state of motion unless an external force is applied to it.
Use the Force. Once she is knocked off center (THE BOMB) then let's watch what happens.
Mishka and Coach,
I hear you. But, esp. Coach, there is nothing to do until after the Holidays, except make my plans to carry that out. After teh Holidays, we have a discussion about, ok, let,s get moving on this D you want.
Am I missing something? Of course, if the opportunity presents itself before then, I will be honest with her as to what we will be doing (I have already told her this a couple of weeks back).