How about you be interesting for a change? Do interesting things? Be interested in things other then what your wife might be thinking.
Ever notice how the women here think you are bone-headed, frustrating and don't listen. Think there is a trend? If you are like this IRL then no wonder your wife wants to D you. The first step to getting out of a hole is stop digging.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.