Sure could use some input. She is showing interest in me and respect for my boundries. Friday, she called and asked if we could Christmas Shop togather for the kids, I agreed. I was pleasant, charming and humerous. I caught her laughing at my jokes. And, she saw a stranger seek me out and show genuine respect for me. This impressed her. I played it cool, but this was a blessing from God. Saturday, we went to CHristmas at my parents. My attention was on the kids. She was depressed and slept for two hours in the middle of the day! Then, when she got up, I was outside engaged in a manly activity, she asked me to go for a walk with her! I agreed. The next morning, I got up and went for an early walk without her. When I returned, she was visibly shaken. The rest of the day she was distant. I kept my distance too. I think I am seeing some results.I am still hurting as the A was only blown up one week ago.
I want to keep my momentum going. I am blocking thoughts about her problems and focusing on myself and changes in me. I sure could use the advise of you experienced folks.
