The Truth Hurts

[CountingCrows]

Last night, my reliable informant came over and chatted with me for about 2 hours. The FULL truth came out that W has been sexually involved with quite a few other men for over 2.5 years. My love, trust and devotion has left me so blind that I had refused to believe that she could do this to me and S7, but I now know that it's fact. So many lies, half-truths and lies by omission.

This morning, W called to see if I needed to help this week with S7 out of school for the holidays. I told her that we didn't need her, that I had taken care of handling his care and that I had explained all of the plans last week. She made a comment about how that sounded snide. I paused for a moment, and then simply said "The truth will set you free. Too bad you're not capable of it." She asked what's that supposed to mean, and I told her that she knew exactly what I meant. Told her I didn't want to hear anything else that came out of her mouth, and said goodbye.

W started calling/texting me frantically trying to get me to talk to her, even saying she was going to come by if I didn't talk to her. I answered after about 5 calls and told her that I was taking S7 to daycamp (he's out of school this week) in 5 minutes and that I'd talk to her later.

W quickly called a friend of ours, who's husband called me after I got to work, asking me what was up. Said that W had told his W that I told her that I was f'ing done with her and other BS that I absolutely didn't say. W said that I must have somehow gained access to her phone records and found out that she was still "talking" with current OM. W is spinning hard, not knowing what I know or how. W told friend that she was going by my house to get some of her stuff if I hadn't already change the locks (I changed them out last night).

I'm ready to unleash a tsunami of truth, but I'm still not sure how to approach it. I want to speak with her parents and OMGF. Not looking to go at it maliciously, but simply want them to know the truth, since they have received none of it from W.

I really want to sit down with W and give her one last chance to be completely honest with me about EVERYTHING, that I will not be in an open marriage, I will not share my wife with any other men and I will absolutely not tolerate blatant lies and half-truths anymore. Failure to be anything but 100% honest, and I will do whatever I have to to protect myself and S7, and I will have absolutely no direct contact with her again.

I had planned on continuing her "allowance" until January 1st, but I don't plan on giving her one more red cent now. It's time for her to lay in this bed she made (wouldn't want to see it under a blacklight) and feel the FULL consequences of her repeated decisions of betrayal and lies.

Puppy? Where are you?! I know you're really busy right now, but I'd sure like to hear you're opinion and suggestions!