Thanks everyone for the advice. Busy weekend. H was around whole time. Had fun at a party. He had discussion with son last night and it went well. It is so wonderful to have H and son in same room without the tension. H just left to go to work--OW works for him and is there. I am praying hard he can do this and sty committed. I am going to talk to my DB C tomorrow morning but as much as I want to, I am making no requests about OW (and it is so hard) I am cutting my work hours so I can be home close to when H gets off work so no time for drinks after work with Ow. i just cant bring myself to walk into his dental office yet with her in there but maybe I should reestablish my turf a little.
Thank you Lotus for rec. on book. I am a little nervous about the whole communication thing with my H--he is able to talk to Ow and flirt with her so much easier than with me. It is like we just have this pattern of communication and he responds to my teasing or flirting so differently. He does not give more than one sentence answers most of the time. I am trying to do little acts of service--his love language and he is accepting them but what I have overheard/snooped on with the Ow--He is the one doing the caretaking/service/offering to make her food or a drink, is she warm enough. I am just going to be patient and loving.
Then there is the ML. He cant seem to perform anymore without Cialis with me but told the C there was no problem with the OW. For me, I seem to want to ML all the time now.Is this normal. I kinda feel like this might not last and I need some good memories. I need the reassurance.
Today, with H going back to work with OW this all seems like a house of cards ready to fall but I need to give it time and just enjoy today. Hope you are recovering well Saffie.
