Hey Pam, Talitsa, and Deb (and anyone else reading)
another positive from the phone call last night. In talking about her birthday dinner this Saturday night, (I am taking her to a really nice steak house and I am wearing a suit) she told me she was planning on wearing her blue high heal slip on shoes. I happen to think she looks really good in high heals and I was with her last year when we found these blue heals and she knows that they are my favorite. It is one of my goals that she will dress up and wear those heals for me and it looks like she will do it.
Another item though that I do not know how do deal with yet. I seems that every year (even before we met) I would have all my family over to my house for Thanksgiving Dinner and after we married this continued be also had any of her family come too. Well since the Bomb in August I told my family that they needed to plan smelting else this year (I had sold my house when we married and now I am in an apartment, it is too small for my family) Well, my family is doing Thanksgiving at my older Brother's Sister in law's place and I am just bringing a store bought cake. (altho I might fix something too) Anyway, Ex told me last night that she had invited her three boys to her house for T-day but that they may end up going to their dad's place instead. This might mean that Ex might not have any place to go for T-Dinner. (I have asked her to eat a belated T-Dinner with just me over the weekend after T-Day) I would not mind asking her to go with me to my family's T-Dinner but I would think that that would make her very uncomfortable in that my family, while supporting me in my DBing, really do have some resentments toward her and it is way too soon for them to start working on that with her. It may be that this may be one of the consequences of her filing for D that she may have to live with. I will just have to let her know that our goal will be to have everything back on track by next year..
