Thanks Kevin. Well, we agreed to be friends for our D's sake and H is saying that D will be final in Dec of next year anyway. He is seeing D13 on a regular basis. There is no M talk or R talk either. One minute he is talking to me about his job and how he has to move again because he can't afford the apartment he is in now and then the next he says he cares for me but doesn't say anything about reconciling more like saying we will be Divorced by next Dec.
I reminded him of what he had told me that he didn't want the D and that he filed because he was mad and he is claiming he never said it. I know what he said when I got the papers (not to sign), but just letting me know that he had filed. I called him and asked if it was really what he wanted and he said no, but now he is saying he never said it.
Don't know what the heck to think. So the friend part is to get along for D13's sake but he did text me on Sat and said that he was done shopping for Christmas but on Sunday the above that I wrote happened. He goes from one thing to another. I don't know if he is taking his meds for his depression or not.
Where do I go from here? Do I go dark or do I text or call him here and there to see how he is doing? Could really use some help here.
