You're on the right assumption for now, slow it down and take it for what it is. Sorry it's not going exactly the way we'd all like to see. Let him have some time. During that, make yourself the best darn mar1713 there is to be desired!
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11