LIMBO NO MO!

[mishka422]

FWIW - I still buy and ship presents to my former MIL, and 2 SIL's. Why? Because they are still my son's family and they had nothing to do with the D. I still love them and always will so it's my own choice to do this for them from my son and I. Yes, things will change, but you can choose how you decide to handle her family and she will choose to do what she wants for yours.

Simple? No. This is a complicated process. The key here is to do what feels right to you regarding the IL's.