I really think your 180's and Plan A activities need to be based around giving.
Not direct giving. But indirect giving. Cleaning, cooking, doing stuff around the house. Not vegging. Activities.
So are you saying you were like WH? Giver?
I think I'm on track...been doing cleaning and stocking up on foods he likes,and I was buying him other little gifts but that was not received well (i.e. "thanks!" and left it here)
About lunch...he is living with OW so I don't think he will take the lunch home.
About activities...we were actually doing lots of fun stuff the summer before he started the A. I thought we had turned a corner! But should I be doing activities with him now? I would be happy to but I thought I was going to start to pull away so he can miss me and pursue me.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
