The thing that shocked me was the speed of everything. How everything changed in 5 weeks. No build up. Just Wham. A black and white town.
Same story, different characters! One week we were passionately making a baby, excited about starting a family. 4 weeks later he was telling me how he "feels complacent" and how he isn't excited about Christmas this year and is not feeling passion for me. It was sudden.
It's great that you know ladybug will not end up with OM and you know it will end! I hope that makes it a little easier to stick to NC.
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But it is the day to day little things in attention and affection that she craves
My WH is similar...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
