Yes it was a blessing and the timing was a blessing too.
Yesterday afternoon I went to a Xmas party (without baby!) and met some of my old girlfriends from high school there who were in town. Anyway, it was RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MGF's. She ended up attending as well. Thankfully we had sort of talked the day before so it wasn't entirely uncomfortable. Otherwise I would have passed out. She came up to me and we started chatting again. She started talking about him and how he seems to be sad and texting her all the time. I burst and told her that he does that to everyone and he still does it to me. I thought she was going to crumble right there. At that moment he made me so mad. Did something rather lame, but I was curious of the outcome...She sent him a text saying she was at a party and I was there and she was going to introduce herself to me...not 20 seconds later I get a text asking where I was. I ignored. Both of our phones were going off. It was rather funny at the time to know he was squirming at home.
Of course when I got home he was asking how my day was and I said I went to a party and it was enlightening. He told me how crazy she was and she won't leave him alone. I did go off at one point and said "you know I wanted you to be sincere and honest and didn't want to be a part of the things you said were in your past. I didn't want it around me and you still did it anyway." Whatever. I just said goodnight.
He may not be physically with anyone, but his fingers are still busy trying to keep everyone in line.
Merry Christmas!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!