Who is this person?

[Day by Day]

I don't understand WHY you need to talk to him though? What about? The only thing I can think of is to ask for money / discuss finances. You know he will use that as a lever against you so I think the talk will be futile.

Can you not talk to L tomorrow morning and explain sitch and ask advice on how to sort this out quickly?

I know I'm cycling, I'm having a very rough time. Why do I want to talk to WAH about the money? I feel I need to speak up about what he's doing. I've been a pushover and it would be a 180 to stand up for myself. My L said that to just file for D. I just think that communication is important too and not leaving things unsaid.

WAH has NOT told the kids we are getting a divorce. He runs from the topic when I told him he has to tell them. What if I tell him that I'll be cleaning up after his A mess and since he won't take responsibility for the expenses, I'll tell the kids myself.

Maybe I need a 2x4, I don't know. I feel I'm missing on doing something or speaking up.