Hi Antlers,

While I can realate to your wife position to some extent, (she has much healing to do in her 'new life)

I will also share.. comparing where you are at & where my StBX is at is like night & day.

I will share that DB'ers like you & Distressed67 give spouses like me who were/are married to spouses like you & him used to be & my StBX still are, you give us "hope" that significant positive changes are possible and sustainable.

Blessings to you & your family as during this special time of year.

Peace
Bridge


Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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