Rabbit, I understand why you wanted H to tell people with you present. It's like telling your family you're expecting a baby and you share your good news together. However, maybe H would be more comfortable without you being present in case he is asked some candid questions. I'm not sure, just trying to consider from his perspective.
I hope you followed my message on my thread and then @ and the name of our other Australian friend here on DB.
I will send you another message tomorrow and that will wrap it up!
