You sound good, Maple Gal. Yes, mind control in the face of adultery is very hard. It is not that the leopard cannot change his spots. He can. But it is a life-altering thing for him to do it. Like an alcoholic or a smoker, they don't just give it up because they say they want to. Something inside them has to change.

Can you post the eggnog cheesecake recipe? I've been wanting to make one of those.