hey, maybe you'll find out something! they say we should not contact OP normally, but in your case it makes sense since you need confirmation (even though your gut is right!)
Honestly I don't know what else to do - I don't think it will make any difference in my current situation but having said that if he lied and he actually had an affair then it was the cruelest thing I have ever encountered. I have this fantasie of showing up at his mums house and just throw all his stuff in black bin bags onto the porch and giving him a piece of my mind in front of everyone and then to disappear with a "Merry Fu**ing X-Mas"
But I think with the bad health his mum is in that wouldn't be such a good idea - I can dream can I
