Thanks you two. Have to say your both pretty inspiring yourselves!
Still think wearing wedges was a turning point for me, Mindful!
Reflecting on the whole DB thing I know when I started following the programme in earnest last April H just got crazier and crazier. It had the opposite effect to what I had hoped.
But now I realise he just really seems to need me to be angry,upset,unhappy to make him feel better. He can`t cope when I`m ok. And hates to see me doing well.
It`s like the toxic parts of our marriage burnt off and now there`s nothing left.
I love that DB gave me me back!I rediscovered old interests,learned to really value friendship, learned to have fun again.
I`m still learning that I matter.
Ok New Year looming. I know there are challenges ahead VH! Hope I can make the separation path as smooth as possible for my kids and mainly, I`m hoping we can all squeeze as much fun as possible out of each day no matter what happens.
