again, thanks to all, the support and advice means a lot to me. And for the first update on a real action after confronting the W about the EA and laying down a boundary,
Although she decided to sleep in the guest room (after asking me what I wanted her to do and I told her sleep wherever she wants, I am fine with her in our bed), I noticed the first step. She is no longer friends on facebook with OM. So that only took a few hours.
She is still livid at me and we left one car at work this weekend, so the morning commute is going to be awkward, but I guess a step is a step, right.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11