cuz he told me that is beter this way hes tierd of huting me and he dosent want to do it any more its beter that we go our sepret ways is that ok for him to say
This is a line that they all use. Mine said it to me and if you were to look around at some of the other threads, you would see that almost all walk away spouses say the same things.
I have already answered your question about how to answer him, more than once in fact. Look father up on this page and you will see it.
Is he treating you well? Is he treating you with the decency that he would treat a friend, or an acquaintance? I dont think that he is, and I think that by sitting there and being availible to him whenever he wants to talk to you, you are ruining all of the hard work that you did going dark.
When you went dark and didnt make contact with him, did he start to come around and want to talk more?
It was because you gave him a chance to miss you. Now that you are there at his beck and call, he is going to take advantage of it until he is bored, and then he will break your heart again. I dont beleive that the only reason that he wanted to talk was because of D18, shes old enough that you dont need to be as close coparenting.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
