got call from ex wife and we just did some chit chat for a few. We discussed her Birthday dinner coming up this Saturday. I am taking her to a nice Steak house that she has always wanted to go to and even though the restaurant has a policy of “proper attire required”, and I know that that may mean nice casual, I told her that I was wearing my suit. I also told her I wanted to buy us a bottle of wine to go with the steaks. She said that if we both drank the whole bottle of wine we might not be able to drive home and she said she already had a bottle chilled that we could drink when we went back to her place. Well I said that if I went to her place and had my share of a bottle of wine I might not be able to drive home later. She said the guest room was available. While the Guestroom is not my first choice, it is still nice. Even when I stay in the guestroom, I like to be able to fix her coffee and breakfast the next morning. All in all, it should be a good date.
Also, I told her that an ex boss of mine had invited me to his office Christmas party next month and that I could bring a friend. So I asked her to go with me and she said ok.
Since he came to our wedding, she asked me if he knew if we were not together anymore. (I find it interesting that she did not ask me if he knew if we were now divorced, but rather she used the term “not together anymore”) Anyway, I told her that I do not keep it secrete from my friends and she said she does not keep it secrete either. I do not know if she says she is divorced to her friends or not. At least she did not use the Divorce word when she was talking to me.
