Well that might be a monumental f*ckup.

Unbeknown to me W sent S21 a text at 2:05pm asking if the kids were coming over XMas Eve to spend the night. He hasn't replied yet.

Me in the meantime had sent a text at 3:45pm telling W that the kids would be there XMas Eve & I would pick them up at 8:30ish.

I have a nasty feeling she will think I'm in collusion with the kids (which I'm not) and just get really narky about the whole thing. I tried to be straight and businesslike with no emotion about the whole thing, I just hope she doesn't think I'm just reacting because she got in first with the texting!!

What do you guys think.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010