Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

One more piece of data. As she is stomping around the house as furious as I've ever seen her in our 14.5 yrs of marriage, I finally ask her what did she expect. She told me she'd suspected I knew and had been trying to get me to tell her what I knew.

She said she got what she expected, an ultimatum, but didn't expect to hate me so much for it.

I told her either it ends with him, or she moves out and she deals with the fallout of her reputation.

And did I mention we work at the same place in fairly high profile jobs. Boy is it going to fun going to work tomorrow and we are supposed to carpool in, my car is still at work. Not good planning on my part