Another troubling thing that she said to me was that it wasn't physical but she would have gone there if she had the opportunity. She also said that if I hadn't found out she would have waited until the kids went to college, then split. That makes a guy feel real good. How can you ignore that [censored].
The book "Not just friends" has lots of insight into healing a R after an A.
I don't think you ignore it, you understand it.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
