What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Hi, I was reading your sitch and just seeing Coach et al chime in - you're getting great advice. Those posts from Robx and R2C say so much; there are some here who would feel you might ease off a bit on seeing other people, that's a call you gotta make for yourself. Myself, I think if you refrain from intimacy and actually starting an R with a 3rd party while still married, well, all's fair in love and war.

As for W checking your phone etc, I have the T-shirt for that too . Nobody likes anybody else touching what is theirs - doormats included.

I'll keep the ring and the knives for another time and place if I were you haha.