If he loves you and he wants to be your husband then hes gonna have to buck up and do what you have asked. Thats your boundary, you have to keep up with it. Did you recommend a visitation time to him yet? I agree that its not good for your D to not see her dad, but I dont think that its been long enough to be harmful.

And dont forget that the first several weeks of him not seeing her was due to choices that he made. Now, because he didnt make contact for 2 weeks, you are supposed to feel bad and accomodate him?

I think that sometimes you have to eat crow and take one for the team for your children, BUT, I think that you have to choose carefully when you can do that without sacrificing the bigger picture- your marriage. Which in the long run IS good for your kids.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...