Originally Posted By: givingitmyall

I truly don't want to feel this way. But I keep struggling with the fact she simply refuses to even try to work on the M.


Of course you don't want to feel this way. This is but one of the consequences she has visited upon you. Unfortunately, this is not a consequence that will capture HER attention. It will be the consequences that impact HER which will make the difference if there is to be one.

Don't let her civility fool you. Almost anyone can be civil. Think of standing in line at the post office. You don't want to be in that line. You pay more taxes (you assume) than the guy in front of you. They should have at least one more clerk for customer service. Your packages are heavy. You have 9 other places to be. And yet...you are civil, make small talk, at least smile. That's what your W is doing.

No consequences...no stir.
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