thanks for the 2 replys so far. I am fighting back tears, this is so painful. I had made up my mind to confront this weekend, but just couldn't because of the physical affection I have been receiving that I have been longing for. Another thing I forgot to mention is the pattern. The OM is married with 3 kids. On weekends, their communication is much, much less (but still a little there). Every weekend my W and I make progress only to lose ground during the week as the W and OM communicate
Dude, I would seriously advise you to stop this attitude immediately. Man up. She is your WIFE. She's giving herself to another man and throwing you scraps and you are gratefully licking them up and rolling over to be scratched.
Does that sound like something any woman would want to be secure with, married to?
Same with offering not to expose and not ruining her career and OM's career. They're adults. They can deal with the consequences of what they're doing. Stop throwing your body on the tracks - it ain't gonna stop the A train and you'll be crushed.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
