Cutter! What an impressive and inspiring intro to your new thread! I must tell you something. I really think your W is escaping in her A through OM. When you stated that your W started getting promotions and you spent less time together, I suspect OM entered the picture then. Do you see this possibility?
So, you didn't ask but you are being very strong and doing the best thing for your sitch-NC. I wonder if time will start to fly by pretty soon. For me, it JUST started to fly prior to Thansgiving (8 months post DDay #2) BUT I have not been NC which would have been my preference sans child. Well, D, probably.So I wonder if NC helps time go by faster(not that we can compare or measure it)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004