She claims they had no plans to run off together, in fact, he's pretty happy with his marriage and family, it was supposedly one of those real good friends that grew into more because my W was needy at the time because she was so pissed at me (and now even more pissed than then) and she reached out to him and he reciprocated.
She claims some of the time the talk and text is I love you stuff, but often just mundane.
A good piece of advice I read on this board from the seasoned vets is "don't believe anything they say, and less than 50% of what they do.
Regardless of the fact that it's just mundane, it's still an EA.
of course she's pissed, she got caught... I remember when I confronted my W with her evidence of her A... Ballistic comes to mind..
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09
