Oh and I found out what the affection was for...she suspected I knew something and was trying to get me to talk.
OMG, I feel I may have screwed up. I couldn't take it, but should have waited till after christmas.
And now what, how do we build a relationship if she is only staying because she feels trapped afraid I will call OM's wife or OM's boss that would end his promising career.
She claims they had no plans to run off together, in fact, he's pretty happy with his marriage and family, it was supposedly one of those real good friends that grew into more because my W was needy at the time because she was so pissed at me (and now even more pissed than then) and she reached out to him and he reciprocated.
She claims some of the time the talk and text is I love you stuff, but often just mundane.
I don't want to lose my wife and my family. What do I do now?
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
