Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

I had read a lot and had it scripted and today I couldn't take it anymore. They were texting back and forth, I saw it, she was trying to hide it. I used most my script. Might have backfired. She's thinking about leaving for good now. I have the power and that is the only thing holding her here because I could ruin his career and her career. She says she doesn't care about hers, but does about his. The amazing thing is today they were texting about what he was buying for his wife for Christmas.

So now its like blackmail. So what do I do. If I tell her that I won't ruin his career or hers or tell his wife, she probably bolts and files for divorce. If I don't say that, maybe she stays but she is PISSED...thats no way to build a relationship.

She says she had decided to leave and that was that. So she hadn't really thought about trying to get to a place to work on our relationship. Right now, she is not willing. It is all because of the stereotype WAW syndrome. She doesn't care that I have changed.

What do I do now!?!?!