25, I really agreed with a lot of what you had wrote, it was more the way you wrote it, and I felt compelled to point it out.
but, it's okay, I felt that SO2 is standing up for boundaries like the money. Of course she's not perfect at it, and the biggest issue is her self worth IMHO, and that's why she's looking to exH for her self worth.
and if you were being sarcastic towards H, I understand...it's just that your talking to SO2, not her H, so to me, it sounded like you were yelling at her and implying she's incapable. But we all have different perceptions, and that's why we always must keep an open mind, like with our WAS's because we don't always know the WHYs and reasons for their actions/words, and/or their true meanings.
You have lots of good input, and the fact that you are still here helping people is a great thing, and it's appreciated.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
