P, I HAVE to say this...NC will eventually get to your WW. BUT based on what I have read from other forums (survivinginfidelity.com and marriagebuilders.com) it takes longer than a month! We're talking 6 months, maybe more. Based on what you have said about OM, I honestly and seriously doubt
1) she will marry him (No effing way!!!)
2) it will last longer than 6-9 months.

As for you selling your ring, why not? Men's rings do not cost as much as women's and like you said, it will be a different marriage if you chose to remarry her.

NC really is better for LBS to heal. Damn, I am living this reality. I have ALWAYS just moved on before WH, granted I wasn't married them, but I KNOW in my heart and soul that I would have just said "see ya!" if I didn't share a child with him.

So, I say continue your NC but please do not expect anything to happen for several months. Detaching will allow you to live as you please and keep her on the back burner. Maybe even try dating the way that Cutter is dating. If your expectations are low, you will be happier.

BTW I bet WW did check your facebook page!

Last edited by newmama; 12/21/09 02:21 AM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004