I've been thinking of changing my relationship status on FB too, but my kids are on it and H's family too. I don't want them tell him I am single now. Don't know why, but doesn't feel right. I'm going to be un-friend-ing most of them anyway except for H's grandfather. I care about him and want him to see that I'm doing well.

About the ring, I know how you feel, but it's all emotions right now. Don't make a decision on that based on emotions. I've been told by a few people that "things get worse before they get better." Don't know if that applies to our sitch, but that gives me a sliver of hope to try to keep on...


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10